Hi there friends! Thanks again so much for your support on Patreon!
I'm about to release a brand new Culture Cruise video, and as always, everyone pledging at the $4+ level gets early ad-free access. Here's your special link to the video:
Early Ad-Free Access:... 2018-09-28 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
How do you make friends as an adult? Without school to throw lots of people together in far greater combinations than a workplace, it's easy to feel stuck in the wrong group -- especially when other gays are hard to find. So my guest this week did something about that. Nick Schiarizzi is the co-founder of the brutally bizarre dance party Cheryl, wh...
2018-09-27 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Acts of selflessness are great, but what's in it for me? This week I'm chatting with my friend Phuong, who's made a whole lifestyle out of making things for others. Whether it's bread or soap or knitted hats, it seems like every minute of his day is dedicated to creating stuff for the people around him. But even though he gives all this stuff away,...
2018-09-20 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest on this bonus episode has a difficult task ahead of her, a different kind of gay marriage -- not of people, but of industries. Trish Bendix is the managing editor of Into, the queer news site connected to Grindr. And in that role, she's in charge of bringing news of the world together with social flirty hookups that made the app famous.&nb...
2018-09-18 13:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest this week is an artist whose creations include the persona he's established for himself. Since childhood, John Michael Byrd has always felt like more of a cartoon character than a normal human, which wasn't a particularly easy role to play growing up in a small southern town. But after spending years disconnecting from the physical world a...
2018-09-13 13:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
You can't accuse this week's guest of ever making things easy for himself. Growing up south of Boston, he was the town's only gay metalhead before he decide to join the army, deploying to the middle east in the 1990s. Now he's enjoying his retirement by going back to school to become a physician's assistant, while also occasionally noodling around ...
2018-09-06 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostHi friends!
Happy back to school month! September's the best month for learning things, whether you're taking classes or just poking around on Wikipedia, so if you've picked any particularly interesting knowledge lately I'd love to hear about it. (For example, did you know King James, of the King James Bible, gave his boyfriend the title " 2018-09-03 23:21:50 +0000 UTC View Post
Hello friends! This weekend is the 10-year anniversary of the Pink Party, a queer geek gathering in Seattle. In honor of that milestone, I'm digging into the Sewers of Paris archive this week to bring you an interview with its founder, Charlie Logan, originally posted in 2015. Charlie's story is full of twists and turns, from terrible danger to fin...
2018-08-30 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest this week has been under a lot of pressure in his life. Raised in an oppressive religious community, he had to deal with ex-gay scammers, a parent who was abusing other kids, and more guilt than any person should ever have to deal with. On top of that, he had a highly active libido that came out in... unusual ways, culminating in the inven...
2018-08-23 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi there backer friends! Thanks again so much for your support on Patreon!
I'm about to release a brand new Culture Cruise video, and as always, everyone pledging at the $4+ level gets ad-free early access. Here's your special link to the video:
Early Access: ... 2018-08-21 20:53:55 +0000 UTC View Post
What would it look like if you celebrated Halloween and Christmas at the same time? My guest this week is Michael Varrati, host of the podcast Dead for Filth, and screenwriter of such films as Grindsploitation 4, From Hell She Rises, and Seven Dorms of Death. But he's also the writer of the Hallmark film Broadcasting Christmas, starring Melissa Joa...
2018-08-16 07:01:59 +0000 UTC View Post
What happens when you allow yourself to become a character in the stories that you tell about the world around you? My guest on this episode is the fantastic Gaby Dunn -- actress, journalist, writer, comedian, activist, blogger. Her podcast and forthcoming book are both entitled Bad with Money, and chronicle Gaby's attempts to help others manage th...
2018-08-15 07:01:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Is it possible to be a responsible adult without giving up the imaginary worlds you enjoyed as a child? My guest this week is Anthony Hudson, also known as Portland's premier drag clown Carla Rossi. Growing up, he'd slip into fantasy worlds to escape the reality of the dreary little town where he lived. But his reliance on escapes as a kid meant th...
2018-08-09 13:01:01 +0000 UTC View PostHi Friends!
Happy LGBTQ Sloth Month! (Or Lust Month, depending on whom you ask.) Thank you so much for all of your wonderful support, which makes all of this month's livestreams and videos and Sewers of Paris episodes possible. Here's what I'm bringing you in August:
Livestream on August 11: Join us at 2pm PST for another S...
2018-08-02 18:46:51 +0000 UTC View Post
Where do you see yourself 200 years in the future? My guest this week is artist Nayland Blake, for whom sci-fi and fantasy were an opportunity to create the future that he was sure he'd never have. Growing up in New York in the 1960s and 70s, it seemed like imaginary worlds were his only opportunity to inhabit a world where he could be openly gay. ...
2018-08-02 13:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Thanks to everyone who pledges their support on Patreon, I'm able to put out bonus episodes of The Sewers of Paris! Here's a conversation with Zack Ford, who never planned to become the LGBTQ Editor at ThinkProgress.org. He was going to be a music teacher, and writing about current events was just a hobby. But after he came out in college and began...
2018-07-31 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest this week is Nick Kochanov, host of the podcasts Squirrel Friends Cocktail Hour and The No Good, Very Bad Gay. Growing up, he dreamt of having his own version of the salon from Steel Magnolias. He envisioned himself hanging out with his own versions of Dolly Parton and Sally Field and Julia Roberts. But it took years for him to reali...
2018-07-27 01:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
This week's episode addresses some upsetting topics. It wasn't until his parents died that J. Ronald M. York learned about accusations of childhood sexual abuse in his family. Letters in a box in his father's garage finally revealed the terrible secrets that his family had kept from him his entire adult life. And in turn, that started his process f...
2018-07-19 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
What role does confidence play in reaching your goals -- is confidence as important as skill, or more, or less? My guest this week is Jonathan Lovitz, senior vice president at the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce. Before he stepped into that role, Jonathan enjoyed a successful acting career on stage an screen. But then he found his enthusiasm turn...
2018-07-12 13:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
How do kids learn to be people when the adults in their lives aren't teaching them? Kai's parents weren't always there to give her the guidance she needed, and so she was forced to fend for herself. That meant learning basic life skills on her own, but also how to function around other people -- and how to take care of herself during a period of ho...
2018-07-07 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
This week's guest has had a hand in shaping a lot of queer culture we enjoy today. Q. Allan Brocka created one of the shows that aired on Logo as the network was getting off the ground; he directed the Eating Out series of films that have been a mainstay at LGBT film festivals for over a decade; and he's currently working on some intriguingly upcom...
2018-07-05 13:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Imaging growing up to find that the fantasy worlds you envisioned as a kid aren't just real, but have been waiting for you to lead them. My guest this week is Jeremy Crawford, lead rules designer for Dungeons & Dragons. We'll be talking about the witches, wizards, and elves who shaped his work in games, his relationship with his husband, and th...
2018-06-28 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest this week is Ryan La Sala. He's got a very queer fantasy novel coming out next year, and while he's always been imaginative, he didn't always exactly use his powers for good.
BTW, I hope you'll join us for the next Sewers of Paris live chat. It's on June 30th -- there's a link to the next livestream at the top of the Sewers of Pari...
2018-06-21 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Do you always NEED to dream big, or is it sometimes ok to just be happy with what you've got? My guest this week has some experience when it comes to achieving big dreams -- Scott Flanary was the winner of Season 29 of The Amazing Race, which had been a goal for pretty much all of his adult life. So now that he's accomplished goals that once seemed...
2018-06-14 13:00:01 +0000 UTC View PostHi Friends!
Happy Pride month, one and all! We've got lots of livestreams and videos and Sewers of Paris episodes coming this month. Thank you so much for all of your wonderful support, which makes it all possible. Here's what I'm working on for you in June:
Livestream on June 5: Join us at 2pm PST for another Sewers of Par...
2018-06-07 18:59:14 +0000 UTC View Post
Join us on tonight's episode when my guest D'Arcee recalls what may have been the worst thing anyone's ever been told by their boss.
We'll have that conversation in a minute -- but first, if you're looking for more podcasts to listen to, check out the show I just launched along with some fantastically funny drag queens. The show's called Queens o...
2018-06-07 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
A well-told joke doesn't just have the effect of making an audience laugh -- it can also provide armor for the person telling it. My guest this week is actor and comedian Byron Lane, whose projects include the webseries Last Will and Testicle, and the stage show Tilda Swinton Answers an Ad on Craigslist. Through his work, he went from the kid who a...
2018-05-31 13:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
How do you know when it's time to move versus when is it time to stay put? My guest this week is Santiago Melli-Huber, who's on a constant hunt for a place that feels right. Whether trying new jobs, new cities, or new social circles, he's made himself into a bit of an investigator, always asking what needs to change and then taking action to try so...
2018-05-24 13:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post
No matter how thoroughly you've planned, life has a way of taking you by surprise -- and when it does, it's often family that gets you through the tough times. Alexis was born to a woman unprepared for motherhood, and so grandparents stepped in to raise her. As she grew older, Houston's drag scene provided a second family where she was free to expr...
2018-05-22 13:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
My guest this week is Phil Stamper, whose book The Gravity of Us tells the story of two young men who fall in love amidst the drama of a mission to Mars. For years, Phil struggled to balance competing impulses to be silly and serious, and to keep his creative spark alive throughout the drudgery of office work. The result is an upcoming debut novel ...
2018-05-18 13:00:01 +0000 UTC View Post