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Patreon, R&P Q&A #206: Week 7

Added 2023-02-15 22:48:10 +0000 UTC

Patreon, R&P Q&A #206: Week 7

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Patreon, R&P Q&A #206: Week 7

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Long time, don’t care Rian, Since my last post, I have/had plates plus a long time girl. Currently, been with the long term lady for three years. Current plan is to go common law in the Keystone state and work towards kids if possible over time once the lady puts down payment on a home. Making her pay the down payment for a home for me to move in. High school teaching/professor has been fantastic with a boost in adjunct, historical society lectures, and my local fame bubble forcing my school to keep me with a 15K raise in a single year. Questions: I have always wanted to travel to Canada but never went until this summer with my girl and son. Thoughts on Quebec City and Montreal. Any places I need to see for a history nerd? Spending 7 days. Request: Any chance on having drinks/dinner on my dime with you? Your work, videos etc. would like to pay it back beyond Patreon. It would be great to meet you as a human. If not, no worries. Thanks Coach

2023-02-20 17:56:08 +0000 UTC

Hello guys I've been shitheadish the last few weeks. I still do it out of some anger, but this shit works. We have been fucking quite regularly but at some point, circumstances got in the way and I got more distant and concentrated mainly on my workouts, kids, home, etc. She was doing work, overtime at home etc, basically being a typical modern woman, with her priorities on the most important things at hand at that moment, in her opinion. Our relationship being last on that list. Covert contract on my part was clear, but I just wanted to know how this situation will pan out. I'm not going to be OK with no sex anyway in the short term even, and I've had an issue with my way of handling these things before, so I just ran with it. One night, after many sexless nights, we were both tired and went to bed together, I wasn't in the mood for doing the work (I'm usually doing the hard labour, sweating, she enjoys the process), so I just layed there. After laying on separate sides of the bed for a while, she asked what's up, implying why am I not initiating, apparently noticing our lack of sex lately, and my distancing. That's her way of initiating, being awake. I said I'm fucking tired today, and I was. She knows me well enough to ask a few follow up questions, so she questioned me for while, implying also to me being clearly upset with her. I responded that the fact that we are talking about this shit has already fucked up both of our moods, what ever I'm thinking about in this situation is irrelevant, lets just go to sleep. I fell asleep in 5seconds. Next day, Friday, I get home first, feed the kids, she gets home, hovers around me, sees the kids doing their thing, grabs my balls and initiates a kiss, then suggests a quicky upstairs. We don't even put on the lights, she's naked in a few seconds, warm up bj, she's insta-wet, smash, cleanup, fully clothed, on with the day. I've been keeping up the same attitude and it has been growing on me. I will articulate it correctly some day, but so far it's a little bit artificial to me, but it makes sense. Fast forward another few weeks. I have internalised being this new way even more and it has started to show in her approach to me also. I'm calm and doing my own thing most of the time. Home is clean, I'm in better shape, working on getting even better come spring, kids listen to me much better than her, because I'm calmer and more direct and firmer than her. I don't respond to her hissi-fits in an apologetic way, etc. She's more giggley around me and I think I get less shit also, or I'm not noticing it. I have noticed more comfort tests though. She has also started to run things by me that she has not before - is this ok, or that, should we this, can we that etc. Funny story - in the past few months she has told me a couple of times, after my new way of handling our disagreements, that we need to have a talk about my approach to handling these things(our disagreements). It has never come to this, so far. We had a bigger argument in the car one day, that ended in her telling me that I'm such an asshole at the moment, that she doesn't even want to be with me anymore. I told her to go look for a better one then, I'm sure she'll find one. Of course I would prefer her not to do that but If she has the need to take an argument this far, fine, go do your thing then. Next day I fucked her right after waking up. And everything was back to usual. This Valentine's Day was also a shit-show in the end. Everything was very good come night time. I organised everything, flowers in the morning, restaurant dinner, my dad looking out for the kids. When we got to the car to go out, she said she had some work to do later that night. I didn't react or say anything. Dinner went well, she talked most of the time. Told some amusing stories how everybody at her work already have heard so much about me, and how come she can't come to their company trip this weekend, because of me having a thing I have planned to go to, before they had announced their plans. Also that she should just get me to not go to my thing. It makes me laugh, this typical attitude towards these things. We got home, kids were in bed, one was still awake. I told her to do some work, I'll go play some online poker with my friends, we'll meet up after that. She was ok with that idea. After poker I happened to fall asleep on the sofa. She lost her self in her work, did nothing to have some fun. I woke up quarter past midnight, went to bed, passing her, pissed as a mo-fo, she didn't even notice apparently. I tried to fall asleep again for 30-min. Went back down stairs, still pissed, this time she noticed and got nervous, asked why am I going down stairs. I said - does it matter. She followed me down stairs and started looking for answers, I didn't respond, I was tired and angry, so I blew her off with a couple of words at a time. She said that she knows that she fucked up, but I could have said something also, before going to bed. After going back upstairs, she came back down shortly after, with an intention to fuck. I was not in the mood for that shit. I know that the rule is to never say no, but this situation was fucking retarded. She told me that feels physically sick when I'm this angry with her. I said nothing, she went to sleep, I followed in about half an hour. Could not fall asleep on the sofa either. Next day she worked late, after asking me by text about it. I put the kids to sleep before she got home. She hovered around me for a bit, while I was cleaning up down stairs and finally initiated. We went up, it was weird at first, but she started with a BJ, ended it with a reverse cowgirl on my request. Today everything is ok.

2023-02-16 19:06:43 +0000 UTC

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