Oregairu S2 EP 3
Added 2024-10-26 11:00:04 +0000 UTCthat situation with Haruno and the middle school girls almost felt like imagery to show us how he hasn't changed and remains stagnant in his growth socially and emotionally. But now this behaviour doesn't seem to be serving him, its almost like he's being forced to see whats wrong with him and forced to change. A lot of us do a lot of maladaptive things to get through the times we're in, and whilst they might have served us at some points, they do become more damaging than helpful at a point, so we're forced to let go. I hope this is his wake up call.
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In Hacchi's case, I feel like this is a "it doesn't matter if I get hurt as long as everyone else is happy" combined with a "if I hurt myself first, no one else can hurt me" type of situation. Unfortunately, that just doesn't work, yet so many people devalue themselves and turn to those types of defense mechanisms. It makes one wonder what happened to Hacchi to make him adopt such a mindset. His mentality doesn't seem to run in his family, so I am assuming it's an outside trauma response due to something in his past.
Zero ChronoV
2024-10-28 02:48:05 +0000 UTCHe needs to find the 'other method' like Thorfinn
CarbonDog
2024-10-26 17:02:52 +0000 UTC
