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Not gonna write another really long thing lol but the long text he sent you really does seem evidence of anxiety around communication behaviors and not a “cop out”; obviously this is not something that you have to (or should) put up with in a relationship but i just want to offer an alternate perspective that this could genuinely be a mental health thing as opposed to “he’s just not that into you”
Kat Soll
2024-04-12 23:24:57 +0000 UTCIm only like 4 min into the video but i do the same thing that this guy does about texting 😧 both w bad reply times and also apologizing. for me it’s def an anxiety response. Ok pause; just got to the part where you said “Andrew’s not that interested” to “test the waters” and i think it’s really important to remember that everyone might express anxious behaviors differently than what you’re used to, and i say this w no bad intentions and i hope you don’t take offense, it really seems insensitive to make an honestly passive aggressive appearing joke about something that could be a manifestation of his general anxiety. I get that it’s frustrating to not receive communication the way that you deserve to (bc yeah i get it even if it’s anxiety it is def inconsiderate to not text back in a timely manner), but i think it’s important to still be sensitive to other people’s feelings as well. i bet that joke made him really anxious 😕. sorry this is long lol i just think it’s important to be thoughtful of other people’s feelings as well even while protecting yourself
Kat Soll
2024-04-12 23:07:23 +0000 UTCListening yet again ❤️
Casey Stab
2024-04-10 07:12:17 +0000 UTC
