For those wondering perhaps what the line is between being honest with your partner about your emotions and sharing too much to where she associates you with weakness. I would propose that the line might be this: she also needs to be able to trust you. If you never share your feelings or your struggles, you're like a blank slate. A question mark, and the unknown can be tantalizing but also a possible threat. Without sharing at least some of where you are at, she doesn't know if where you are at is somewhere that will make things unsafe for her.
Ultimately leading her to wonder if you might become unstable and destabilize her as well. So I would suggest only sharing as much as needed that reassures her you are capable and proves you are indeed trustworthy.
Thoughts?
Bean Dar
2026-01-31 14:49:22 +0000 UTC
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