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Are The Straights OK?

Michael and Peter discuss the ways in which the paradigm shift toward online dating has damaged our brains and hardened our hearts.

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Ooph a big section of this episode could be summed up with "I don't want to date autistic people" which.... like... okay. But the lack of self awareness wooof

Benny Vimes

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Toma's Babicki

The episode is lacking for serial dating app users. That isn't really surprising to me.

John McFadin

Listening a second time it's very... Lacking. First, I don't believe Michael has been on Grindr for a *long* time. And complaining about taking time to talk before deciding you want to meet in person? From the point you both agree to go out to the actual meeting up, how soon does that need to be? People aren't always capable of going on a date the next day/the day after/etc. And that's where you can keep communicating and maybe you realize that person sucks and you can avoid going on a date with a flaming asshole. Third, they don't discuss much on the systemic reasons online date is what it is yet complain about the negative behaviours yet don't discuss it much beyond "I do this in dating, I don't lkke that". And how is Michael surprised by how putting 6ft in his profile got him more dates? Literally look AT ANY app and especially Grindr.

RRP

Am straight. Am single. Would like to date someone who likes this podcast 😄

Grace Cai

If the title of your episode ends in a question mark... the answer is no. But it was sweet of you to ask!

Kazoolhu

Never been more jealous of Peter lol

"No rice, no spice." "Jesus Christ." That was nice.

murt pie

Dating sucks, why does anyone do it?

TheXenochrist

I'm so glad Peter mentioned the damn voice memos...I've been getting them this time around on the apps - before we've even met! - and I think it's SO WEIRD.

Molly


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