I agree that thing drew blood and it got right back up it’ll be fine. Dogs can be vicious killers
Garland -
2024-08-10 08:09:40 +0000 UTC
you not wrong at all. you’ve always been transparent when it came to the relationship with your family. it seems like every time you go home, it’s always something. the fact that your grandmother could pull a gun on you over a damn dog is crazy! ion care how many times she apologizes, that’s something you can’t come back from. you’ve been doing well on your own so keep doing you! we got you ❤️
jai
2024-08-09 10:57:38 +0000 UTC
Umm well… that was a lot to take in Che.
Da kid Dayvon
2024-08-09 06:09:12 +0000 UTC
I see a lot of people are enablers here, but I’m a REAL supporter since 2017, so imma keep it real: throwing the dog is crazy. I understand the desire to harm it as it harmed you—that’s human. But we know better. It does not. You did bleed, and that is a problem that should’ve been addressed. The villains here were your family until you inflicted pain on the animal. But it is absolutely INSANE that your grandmother pulled a gun on you regardless.
This whole situation is cracked and nothing about their reaction OR yours is normal. That said, the overall decision to cut them off seems to be the healthiest option. And there are black therapists if that truly is something you’re considering.
Tyree
2024-08-08 23:36:51 +0000 UTC
Girl, you ain’t wrong at all. I don’t fw my family either, It’s fresh too, Haven’t talked to them in like 5 months. It doesn’t really feel any different than I it did when I was surrounded by them, I was the different thinker. Now I’m in my own shit, they be around cause we in the same area we don’t speak.
JREAM
2024-08-08 22:03:15 +0000 UTC
Your grandmother was ready to put you down over a dog💀
Joshua
2024-08-08 19:07:26 +0000 UTC
Facts!!
Jaelynn
2024-08-08 13:24:49 +0000 UTC
I love dogs & animals but I be damn if one decides to bite me. I'm punching & kicking. They should've trained it & the mf could've had some disease or rabies. Pulling out a gun was just doing the most. Never been that deep but it's a guaranteed fact you'll never see me again. Grandma was staring into space because she knew she fucked up y'all relationship. I always never felt connected to blood family and that's because they ain't y'all soul family. Dogs do pick up on energy but you wasn't a threat to it nor the family, the lil mf shouldn't have leap off of that bed.
Tt
2024-08-08 11:06:31 +0000 UTC
in the beginning of january me, my mom, and my siblings cut ties with the whole family. for various reasons, but honestly as time goes you forget about them. my family was never the ideal type and as you level up in life you tend to see the people trailing behind you and envious of the path god places for you. i pray for your clarity and peace when it comes to this situation. you don’t need a therapist, get a journal❤️
Haruka Minai
2024-08-08 11:03:24 +0000 UTC
You ain’t wrong
Kway
2024-08-08 10:49:19 +0000 UTC
She pulled a gun on you... Her grandchild.... Over a dog? That's insanity!!!!!
Marquin Scott
2024-08-08 08:05:44 +0000 UTC
I agree with everything
Gquay Milton
2024-08-08 04:43:34 +0000 UTC
The INSENSITIVITY. The dog drew literal BLOOD. Are they insane??? And the fact that they let you sit there with the stinging pain and acted as if everything was normal. Ouuu, they’re lucky you didn’t get a baseball bat and beat the dog to death. But honestly where they first fucked up at is making light of how uncomfortable the dog(s) made you. That’s honestly awful and I’m sorry you had to deal with that Che.
ChaHae
2024-08-08 03:32:43 +0000 UTC
As a dog lover girl i completely get it, the reactions they gave to a dog over you is sick. Im sorry your family doesnt appreciate you boo frl!!
Cammiana
2024-08-08 02:37:44 +0000 UTC
Honestly che u not wrong in the situation cause I would’ve took the dog in the Uber and threw it out the the car but once my family puts a dog before me and a gun to me it’s over don’t even come to my funeral
LaĆhe Townsend
2024-08-08 01:37:55 +0000 UTC
over a DOGGGGGGG??? absolutely not
Princess
2024-08-08 01:25:01 +0000 UTC
initially i could understand the shock they had from you throwing the dog, but grandma pulling the gun on you seals the deal they’re cut