Patreon, R&P Q&A #200: Week 1
Added 2023-01-06 17:27:17 +0000 UTCPatreon, R&P Q&A #200: Week 1
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Stop navel-gazing
Owning My Shit
2023-01-12 19:45:19 +0000 UTCOne thing that has caught my attention lately is the "I love you, but I am not in love with you" speech. My view is that once you have started your RP journey, I don't see how the speech would come up. I could imagine it if you asks the follow "Dear wife, why don't we smash more often ?" or "dear wife, why don't you put more enthusiasm in our smashing session ?". But this is not the kind of talk that a RP man is supposed to have. I could also imagine that if you initiates like every 5min. The wife would start to be more direct at some point and starts the speech. This seems like an unrealistic scenario. Do I see that right or what am I missing here ? What I realize is that in some way each time you get turned down for sex, it is a kind of "ILYBINILWY" speech. Reading reports about that makes me think that the speech really happened.
Mac
2023-01-12 19:25:59 +0000 UTCThe thing you mentioned on frame was not your frame, it was your wife's. Don't say "I need to be more mindful of being more outgoing", you've just decreased the chance of actually doing something. Create systems that increase the likelihood of meeting new people, like going to Starbucks during lunch break, going to work by metro, going to the bar saturday night, whatever. Just make sure you're out there enough times to reach your goals when it comes to pick-up. You're trying to do a meetup with your plates and your wife all in one place? Fucking legend.
Owning My Shit
2023-01-12 19:18:52 +0000 UTCBackground - Mentally Ill Kid, thinking of divorce, mountain bike chicks Fitness - On Point. Dry January, working out, running and biking. Cum on Tits - Sort of. She had her shirt on the last smash and I pulled out and shot on her shirt over titties. No complaints for her. Divorce Papers - Not yet Frame - Not bad. One example... I told my wife off about driving our kid around the City too frequently and being too responsive to his whims (this was in a call with all his caregivers). A few days, she followed through and told our kid he had to take the bus and meet her half way. That became a four hour battle with him trying to talk her in picking him up, but she stuck to her guns and he eventually gave in. So that's a win. Mountain Bike Chicks - Two of the three MBC's want to meet my wife because they're worried about crossing her boundaries. We're planning some trips to my vacation place in the Spring/Summer and they want to be cool with her before that. My thinking is to have a BBQ at my place with both chicks and dudes that I bike with with my wife there. MBC 2 mentioned to me last night that she got berated a couple weeks ago by another guys wife and was told to stay the fuck away from him. She brought up meeting my wife before that, but I think she's pre-emptively trying to avoid conflict. Hitting on Chicks - I'm failing on this, even when the door is open. I don't get out much lately but yesterday I was walking from my car to a meeting and could see some interest from a chick and I didn't jump on it. I need to be more mindful of being more outgoing. I think I'm too focussed on whatever I'm doing most of the time, so I need to step out that headspace.
Dave
2023-01-12 19:09:24 +0000 UTC
