Patreon, R&P Q&A #211: Week 12

That night I worked on opening sets, say to them something with false time constraint, going away then reapproach them later again so then I don't come across as needy. Earlier I used to open and immidietaly go for them which wasn't always good. My sticking points for now are: Isolation of target, boundaries with bratty behaviour from her, numbers getting and bridging when time isn't on my side neither their. ------ Romana chick: I opened with: what brings you here, I haven't seen you here before. F to Male interest: 3 IOIs Done Male to F interest: She plays handball and is fit. I asked her to introduce me to her friends, she asked why, I told her because her friends will not like the fact I talk to you, introduce me to them it's polite. She bought me drink. Then me and her friends+her were sitting at the table. After while I left the table reapproached previous chick who showed me IOIs instead of isolating Romana. I returned to the table. Went to that reopened chick qgain and Romana was red in face and went with her girlfriend away. Later I saw Romana talking to other dudes. So yeah, she was pretty pissed. Conclusion: I had to isolate immediately after introducing to friends. When I am in set especially in M to F phase, do not fucking leave. If she refuses to isolate, as sometimes it happens, set is dead. ------- Tall blonde: Opener: Touch her back, second time she sees me, says: "Is this some tactic?" Me: "I didn't want to be a creep." Female to M: She was really bratty. I skipped this phase. I assumed if she opens me with: is this some tactic, I can show my interest immidietally. Male to F interest: I touched her on her butt, told me she is only into dancing, she doesn't do it. Me: "I am not slut, I don't do these things too. If I brought a chick home, it was only once and it doesn't count." She just jaw dropped from amazement. Anyways she had really really bratty behaviour. Compliance tests: Hand and turn around move. She just gave me hand. Then she pinked me with her left index finger into my cheek as I was smiling. Some chick brought her in her group as she wanted to save her. When the blonde looked at me whe she was with her friends (i was just standing aside), I showed her with hand: Come here to me. She came in and I said: "Don't act like you don't like me." Blonde: "You're an asshole." She was pissed and she didn't want me to talk to her again. Conclusion: Not enough value demonstrated in F to M phase. Same thing happened with 3 other chicks that night. Whenever I said "Don't act like you don't like me, I know it." They all told me I am asshole --> Uncalibrated mistake or a line which simply isn't into my persona and my appearance, can't say that. Need more testing. ------ Blonde Sarah and Brunette Barbara. Those chicks who shittested me with gay thing. Female to M int.: Immediatelly as I opened Sarah told me they both are leaving. She said it two more times. Sarah: "What are you doing here, shouldn't you be here from 8 pm?" Me: "Some other people had interest in me, so I gave attention to them." Sarah: "Don't you remember us?" Me: "No, I don't... you know it. Too many people, too many numbers. I can't remember evyeryone." When I didn't hear something, she leaned in to tell me. M to F: They left. I told them: "Enjoy the night." Conclusion: Had to ask for phone number or ask them if I am invited too. I know where Barbara lives, I know I will meet her again since she lives next to me. Her bell doesn't have her second name on it, so who knows which one it is. I've met her again in front of my flat and I hurried to theatre classes, didn't have time to proceed. Simetimes unfortunate things happen.

Oh. It's been emphasised by actions that being a mopy bitch doesn't work and being friendly /just forcing self to accept that if they go they go is relaxing

Alex

Some quick notes as I'm in the car. Went to France with frenchie. And I'm spending the time driving down with her BFF and other partner. Yes potentially punching myself in the d repeating. I came to this. 1 I have scarcity issues. With frenchie and wifie, very much at the fake it till you make it stage. 2. I am working on being OK with just doing shit cause I want to. Wife is acting angry about me doing something she doesn't approve of. I have been reassuring, fogging / understanding but haven't made any apology. We will see how it goes but I think I'll have a few interesting things come out of it. If nothing else I am happy being in a situation that isn't comfortable and hard to bullshit self. In other news, wife broke down crying begging me not to abandon her. I pat and reassured /cuddled her and told her there is room in my life for her. It'll be great to have her along though it might not be what she expected (no snot bubbles but snot/ugly cry). Realised part of why I don't fuck her is I'm a bitch. I kept asking / joke telling her to do shit and then she won't but every time I just tell her then we fuck. So interesting one there too

Alex